Over the last couple of weeks, it seems as though a reoccurring issue that just keeps coming up in one-on-one conversations as well as in large group settings is family relationships. Primarily, with preteens, family relationships among the siblings. I should say that I'm not surprised that most preteens don't have a good relationship with their siblings. I just have to wonder why.
I wonder if it's the close proximity of living space?
I wonder if it's the 'natural' reaction of siblings?
I wonder if it's just easy to do?
Whatever it is, I'm wanting to have my preteens have stronger and healthier relationships with their siblings. I do believe this is a crisis that is happening among American families. Probably very few things in the life of a preteen or junior high will have as life-long impact as their relationships with their siblings. I'm not reaching for perfect families, but I am reaching for families that seek to move beyond the relationship that is characterized by annoyance and fighting. Forgiveness is important, but wouldn't it be incredible if the Church were to cast a vision for families to help their children (if multiple) become the best of friends?
It's bold. But it's important. God gives us family to help us and challenge us in our love for God and others. I would argue that God gives this responsibility to families before the Church. The Church is charged with supporting the family in this responsibility and vision. But what an important piece of the family puzzle when it comes to discipleship is the promotion of healthy relationships among the siblings.
